Shout-out to the people who are going against the stereotype & awakening from the dead traditions made by already dead people. Today, nobody wants to live their lives according to the boundaries set by the majority of people centuries ago & we all are fighting for a common dream.
Today, a man can kiss another man, a woman can tie knot to another woman. Love is not between opposite genital anymore but between two pure souls. You need not hide your identity & can be who you are! Today, it is fine if you do not want to talk about it, you receive all the private space.
You can have a boyfriend who is shorter than you, or weighs lesser than you. Your girlfriend can be darker than you or can have big biceps than yours. If you decide to make babies before your marriage, it is fine. If you do not want any babies ever, it is fine too. You are no more bounded by the marriage knot either. You need not have to meet any criteria today because there’re no criteria any more.
Your wife can earn more money than you which is not a matter of shame for you anymore. A disabled person is a differently-able person today. Not a single person should feel inferior for the differences one has & not a single person gets to feel superior of the ordinary things that one might not have.
Today, eating snacks in a restaurant alone is cool. Going to the theater alone is completely fine. Making denial of any events for a personal growth or happiness is encouraged.
Pink is a man’s favorite color today without questions, and women are walking down the streets wearing boxers & ?????. Women with shaved heads are still slaying & men participating in beauty pageants are complete dudes. Men can hug each other in the park & women can give each other fist bumps in public.
It is not that people stopped talking behind your back, or make fun of you for being different than the usual, it is that you stopped giving a damn. You have matured so much that you believe everyone gets to enjoy in their own way & all you should focus on is making your life beautiful instead of making someone else’s life miserable. Everyone is healing; everyone is focused on following their dreams. Actually, this change was much needed, and shall provide more wonders.
© Aleena Rayamajhi
